Humans’ specific name is Homo sapiens, which means wise human in Latin. Although humans are known as one of the smartest Species on the Earth, they do suffer with many troubles. They usually face difficult problems and struggle to solve them. Most people successfully finish to solve problems and move forward. However, rests of them who cannot stand against the problems have to suffer with them. They may choose passive living style or give up their live, the suicide. People usually ignore suicide as adults’ way but it occupies 30 percents of Korean teenagers’ death. The impacts of problems do not consider age, gender, or social status. People have to realize that they can face the problems although they are wise and the problems that they ignore can become severe enough to lead suicide. So they have to get advices when they have troubles. To get the better results, they have to understand and choose the way of advising with higher qualities. However, do getting advices from other people give good answers to solve problems? Or do people with problems have to struggle with them until they become old and die?

Because it is impossible to see other people’s real thoughts, only people to know themselves are themselves. When people meet troubles, then they will look at themselves. With knowing who they are and where they are, they will try to find the best ways to solve the problems. In these cases, specialists like doctors, teachers, or psychologists can help them. However, talking some troubles with other people can be shameful to them and it causes them to not share the problems with specialists. Unless people who carry the pains of troubles explain the exact reasons and ideas about them to specialists, they cannot give right answers to help them.

With realizing the needs of helps from other people, they will go to the office of people called specialists to get the solutions. Although they have shameful, stupid, or unreasonable problems, specialists will do their jobs and try to give the rightist ways to people with matters. Their answers can be nice and reasonable for them to accept. However, specialists are also humans and they cannot get the answers that every client hopes to have. With getting unsatisfied answers from the people called specialists, clients can feel collapses of minds and cause the serious problems even more troublesome to deal with. Then they can give up fighting against problems they face and live a daily life with dissatisfactions or the worst choice, suicide. Instead of getting displeasing answers from specialists, advising by their own thoughts will be worthy.

With the fear of risks of specialists’ advices, people want to troubles with other people. However, before getting advices from them, they have to check that their problems are severe to get the professional treatments or not because many problems can be solved just with simple talking with people near them. In this moment, friends and family have great powers on them. Although they are not trained for the professional skills of counseling, they will ask about wellness of them and want to share the reasons of problems. Because they are close each other, they can talk anything they want whether the problems may seem abnormal and uncommon. Just having a short talking can guide their live to the right directions and build good relationships with people near them.

If a talking with friends or family cannot lead the answer to solve the questions, then it is the moment that they have to see the specialists. Because specialists learn about solving problems for many years, treat many clients or patients with third point of view, and have many treatments that normal people never get, their needs can be necessary for some people. With seeing many clients or patients, it is easy to consider the conditions of them for the specialists. Also specialists will say the truths or their judgments without considering the reactions of them at a moment. They just consider the future of their clients. With these characteristics, clients’ hearts can be frozen and cause the situation of getting the poor results such as loss of hope or reasons to live. However, getting advices from the people that people with troubles do not know well mean that there is no place to step back for them to avoid the problems. They have to show what they have to them and try to understand each other to solve them. As choosing the last card, the specialists, they have to move forward with no fear.

People do suffer with the problems that they face in their daily live. Some of them can be solved with one person’s efforts. However, other problems will have stubborn nature to stand against many people’s helps. They will think about the qualities of two different kinds of advices. Each of them has their special features and people have to consider what to do. With having different qualities, people will see qualities as advantages of defects. However, people with troubles must know that qualities of advices do not solve their problems. People who know the qualities only solve the problems.